How Flirt works

Real connection starts with a little courage.

No swiping. No algorithms. Just you, a map, and the people around you right now.

01

Open the map

See real people nearby — their profile photo and first name appear on the map. If they have Flirt open, they show up.

Your exact location is never shared precisely. People appear within a general radius so everyone stays in control of their privacy.

02

Send a Flirt

Spot someone interesting? Send them a Flirt — a simple, low-pressure signal that says you noticed them.

The recipient isn't notified. They have to open the app themselves and discover it. No pressure, no awkward alerts.

03

Wait for the mutual

A connection only unlocks when both people Flirt each other. One-sided interest stays private — always.

If they never open the app, nothing happens. If they do and Flirt you back, you both get notified at the same moment.

04

Break the ice

Once it's mutual, a chat opens. Send an icebreaker, share a moment, or just say hey.

The conversation is yours to start. Flirt gives you the opening — what happens next is up to you.

Why mutual-only?

Most apps notify people the moment someone likes them. That creates pressure, anxiety, and one-sided dynamics. Flirt flips it — nobody knows they've been flirted until they've flirted back. It keeps things equal, low-stakes, and genuinely exciting when it clicks.

Built with privacy first

No precise location

Your exact position is never shared. Others see only a general area.

Anonymous until mutual

Your identity stays hidden until both sides connect.

You control visibility

Go invisible anytime. No signals sent, none received.

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